I didn’t realize how much energy it takes to keep yourself small

She texted me this after sending three invoices she'd been sitting on for two months.Big ones.The kind that change everything.We'd just finished a session where I walked her through the same work I did in September.40 days of intentionally becoming the woman she's meant to be.She had the invoices ready.She just couldn't send them.Because the …

She texted me this after sending three invoices she’d been sitting on for two months.

Big ones.

The kind that change everything.

We’d just finished a session where I walked her through the same work I did in September.

40 days of intentionally becoming the woman she’s meant to be.

She had the invoices ready.
She just couldn’t send them.
Because the woman she was becoming scared her.

She wanted bigger clients.
But she was terrified of what that meant.
More visibility.
More responsibility.
More success.

So she kept herself small.
Didn’t invoice.
Stayed inconsistent.

Burnt herself out fighting herself every day.
Until we did the work.

The questionnaire.
The uncomfortable questions:
-What’s holding me back from becoming her?
-Where am I self-sabotaging?
-What’s keeping me playing small?

Within an hour of our call, she sent all three invoices.
Two are already paid.

And she texted me:
“I didn’t realise how exhausting it is to keep yourself small.”

That’s what this work does.
It doesn’t fix you.
It builds on the woman you already are.
The woman who’s in a good place but knows there’s more.

In September, I spent 40 days doing this work myself.
It transformed everything.

My energy.
My business.
The way I move through the world.

Now I’m doing it again.
Deeper.
And I’m bringing women with me.

Rebel With A Cause. November 1st. 40 days.

This is for women ready to stop healing and start BECOMING.
Women who want to BUILD on who they already are.
Women who are done playing small.

Here’s what we’re doing:
Meeting the woman you’re meant to become.

Identifying what’s keeping you small.
Creating the plan to become her.

Being her daily.
Having the hard conversations.
Welcoming the discomfort.

And we’re not being humble here.
We’re not toning down our wants and desires.

This is a safe space to build the most powerful version of yourself.
40 days.
Starting November 1st.

Link in comments if you’re ready.

The woman you’re meant to become is already inside you.
She’s just exhausted from being kept small.
Let’s set her free.

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